Practical Suggestions
for
Mother and Housewife
By MARION MILLS MILLER, Litt D.
Edited by THEODORE WATERS
Contents
THE SINGLE WOMAN
Her Freedom. Culture a desideratum in her choice of work.
Daughters as assistants of their fathers. In law. In
medicine. As scientific farmers. Preparation for speaking or
writing. Steps in the career of a journalist. The editor. The
Advertising writer. The illustrator. Designing book covers.
Patterns.
THE SINGLE WOMAN
Teaching. Teaching Women in Society. Parliamentary law.
Games. Book-reviewing. Manuscript-reading for publishers.
Library work. Teaching music and painting. Home study of
professional housework. The unmarried daughter at home. The
woman in business. Her relation to her employer. Securing an
increase of salary. The woman of independent means. Her civic
and social duties.
THE WIFE
Nature's intention in marriage. The woman's crime in marrying
for support. Her blunder in marrying an inefficient man for
love. The proper union. Mutual aid of husband and wife.
Manipulating a husband. By deceit. By tact. Confidence
between man and wife.
THE HOUSE
Element in choice of a home. The city apartment. Furniture
for a temporary home. Couches. Rugs. Book-cases. The suburban
and country house. Economic considerations. Buying an old
house. Building a new one. Supervising the building. The
woman's wishes.
THE HOUSE
Essential parts of a house. Double use of rooms. Utility of
piazzas. Landscape gardening. Water supply. Water power.
Illumination. Dangers from gas. How to read a gas-meter. How
to test kerosene. Care of lamps. Use of candles. Making the
best of the old house.
FURNITURE AND DECORATION
The qualities to be sought in furniture. Home-made furniture.
Semi-made furniture. Good furniture as an investment.
Furnishing and decorating the hall. The staircase. The
parlor. Rugs and carpets. Oriental rugs. Floors. Treatment of
hardwood. Of other wood. How to stain a floor covering.
FURNITURE AND DECORATION
The carpet square. Furniture for the parlor. Parlor
decoration. The piano. The library. Arrangement of books. The
"Den." The living-room. The dining-room. Bedrooms. How to
make a bed. The guest chamber. Window shades and blinds.
THE MOTHER
Nursing the child. The mother's diet. Weaning. The nursing
bottle. Milk for the baby. The baby's table manners. His
bath. Cleansing his eyes and nose. Relief of colic. Care of
the diaper.
THE MOTHER
The school child. Breakfast, Luncheon, Supper. Aiding the
teacher at home. Manual training. Utilizing the collecting
mania. Physical exercise. Intellectual exercise. Forming the
bath habit. Teething. Forming the toothbrush habit. Shoes for
children. Dress. Hats.
CARE OF THE PERSON
The mother's duty toward herself—Her dress. Etiquette
and good manners. The Golden Rule. Pride in personal
appearance. The science of beauty culture. Manicuring as a
home employment. Recipes for toilet preparations.
Nail-biting. Fragile nails. White spots. Chapped hands. Care
of the skin. Facial massage. Recipes for skin lotions.
Treatment of facial blemishes and disorders. Care of the
hair. Diseases of the scalp and hair. Gray hair. Care of
eyebrows and eyelashes.
GENERAL PRINCIPLES OF COOKING
The prevalence of good receipts for all save meat dishes.
Increased cost of meat makes these desirable. No need to save
expense by giving up meat. The "Government Cook Book." Value
of the cuts of meat.
GENERAL PRINCIPLES OF COOKING
Texture and flavor of meat. General methods of cooking meat.
Economies in use of meat.
RECIPES FOR MEAT DISHES
Trying out fat. Extending the flavor of meat. Meat stew. Meat
dumplings. Meat pies and similar dishes. Meat with starchy
materials. Turkish pilaf. Stew from cold roast. Meat with
beans. Haricot of mutton. Meat salads. Meat with eggs. Roast
beef with Yorkshire pudding. Corned beef hash with poached
eggs. Stuffing. Mock duck. Veal or beef birds. Utilizing the
cheaper cuts of meat.
RECIPES FOR MEAT DISHES
Prolonged cooking at low heat. Stewed shin of beef. Boiled
beef with horseradish sauce. Stuffed heart. Braised beef, pot
roast, and beef a la mode. Hungarian goulash. Casserole
cookery. Meat cooked with vinegar. Sour beef. Sour beefsteak.
Pounded meat. Farmer stew. Spanish beefsteak. Chopped meat.
Savory rolls. Developing flavor of meat. Retaining natural
flavors. Round steak on biscuits. Flavor of browned meat or
fat. Salt pork with milk gravy. "Salt-fish dinner." Sauces.
Mock venison.
HOUSEHOLD RECIPES
Various recipes arranged alphabetically.
INTRODUCTION
What a tribute to the worth of woman are the names by which
she is enshrined in common speech! What tender associations
halo the names of wife, mother, sister and
daughter! It must never be forgotten that the dearest,
most sacred of these names, are, in origin, connected with
the dignity of service. In early speech the wife, or wife-man
(woman) was the "weaver," whose care it was to clothe the
family, as it was the husband's duty to "feed" it, or to
provide the materials of sustenance. The mother or matron was
named from the most tender and sacred of human functions, the
nursing of the babe; the daughter from her original duty, in
the pastoral age, of milking the cows. The lady was so-called
from the social obligations entailed on the prosperous woman,
of "loaf-giving," or dispensing charity to the less
fortunate. As dame, madame, madonna, in the old days of
aristocracy, she bore equal rank with the lord and master,
and carried down to our better democratic age the
co-partnership of civic and family rights and duties.
Modern science and invention, civic and economic progress,
the growth of humanitarian ideas, and the approach to
Christian unity, are all combining to give woman and woman's
work a central place in the social order. The vast machinery
of government, especially in the new activities of the
Agricultural and Labor Departments applied to investigations
and experiments into the questions of pure food, household
economy and employments suited to woman, is now directed more
than ever before to the uplifting of American homes and the
assistance of the homemakers. These researches are at the
call of every housewife. However, to save her the
bewilderment of selection from so many useful suggestions,
and the digesting of voluminous directions, the fundamental
principles of food and household economy as published by the
government departments, are here presented, with the
permission of the respective authorities, together with many
other suggestions of utilitarian character which may assist
the mother and housewife to a greater fulfillment of her
office in the uplift of the home.
CHAPTER I
THE SINGLE WOMAN
Her Freedom—Culture a Desideratum in Her Choice of
Work—Daughters as Assistants of Their Fathers—In
Law—In Medicine—As Scientific
Farmers—Preparation for Speaking or Writing—Steps
in the Career of a Journalist—The Editor—The
Advertising Writer—The Illustrator—Designing Book
Covers—Patterns.
She, keeping green
Love's lilies for the one unseen,
Counselling but her woman's heart,
Chose in all ways the better part.
BENJAMIN HATHAWAY—By the Fireside.
The question of celibacy is too large and complicated to be
here discussed in its moral and sociological aspects. It is a
condition that confronts us, must be accepted, and the best
made of it. Whether by economic compulsion or personal
preference, it is a fact that a large number of American men
remain bachelors, and a corresponding number of American
women content themselves with a life of "single blessedness."
It is a tendency of modern life that marriage be deferred
more and more to a later period of maturity. Accordingly the
period of spinsterhood is an important one for consideration.
It is a question of individual mental attitude whether the
period be viewed by the single woman as a preparation for
possible marriage, or as the determining of a permanent
condition of life. In either case the problem before her is
to choose, like Mr. Hathaway's heroine, "the better part."
The single woman has an advantage over her married sister in
freedom of choice, of self-improvement, and service to
others. Says George Eliot of the wife, "A woman's lot is made
for her by the love she accepts." The "bachelor girl," on the
other hand, has virtually all the liberty of the man whom her
name indicates that she emulates.
To the unmarried woman, especially the one who may
subsequently marry, education in the broad sense of
self-culture and development is of primary importance. The
question of being should take precedence over doing, although
not to the exclusion of the latter, for character is best
formed by action. But all her studies, occupations, even her
pastimes, should be pursued with the main purpose of making
herself the ideal woman, such an one as Wordsworth describes,
one with:
"The reason firm, the temperate will,
Endurance, foresight, strength and skill;
A perfect Woman, nobly planned
To warn, to comfort, and command;
And yet a Spirit still, and bright
With something of angelic light."
It is an obviously true, and therefore a trite observation,
that no one, woman or man, should consider that education
(using the term broadly) stopped with graduation from school
or college. But the statement that a grown person who has not
settled down to some particular life work, such as is often
the case with a young unmarried woman, should continue at
least one serious study, will not be so generally
accepted or acceptable. Yet in no other way may that mental
discipline be obtained which is necessary to the mature
development of character. Neglect to cultivate the ability to
go down to the root of a subject, to observe it in its
relations, and to apply it practically, will inevitably lead
to superficial consideration of every subject, and even
ignorance of the fact that this is superficial consideration.
As a practical result, the person will drift through life
rudderless, the sport of circumstance. She will act by
impulse and chance, and be continually at a loss how to
correct her errors. The shallowness with which women as a
class are charged is due to the fact that, their aim in life
for a considerable period not having been fixed by marriage
or choice of a profession, they do not substitute some
definite interest for such remissness, and so form the habit
of intellectual laziness.
The study which an unmarried and unemployed woman should
pursue may be anything worthy of thought, but preferably a
practical subject at which, if necessary, the woman is ready
to earn her living. Many a family has been saved from
financial ruin by a daughter studying the business or the
profession of the father, and, upon his breakdown from
ill-health, becoming his right-hand assistant, or, in the
case of his death, even taking his place as the family
bread-winner. In these days when farming is becoming more and
more a question of the farmer's management, and less and less
of his personal manual labor, a daughter in a farmer's family
already supplied with one or more housekeepers may, as
legitimately as a son, study the science of agriculture, or
one of its many branches, such as poultry-raising or
dairying, and with as certain a prospect of success. Ample
literature of the most practical and authoritative nature on
every phase of farming may be secured from the Department of
Agriculture at Washington, and the various State universities
offer special mid-winter courses in agriculture available for
any one with a common-school education, as well as send
lecturers to the farmer's institutes throughout the State.
To give examples of women who have made notable successes at
farming and its allied industries would be invidious, since
there are so many of them.
Studies that look to the possibility of the student becoming
a teacher are preeminent in the development of mentality. The
science of psychology is the foundation of the art of
pedagogy, and every woman, particularly one who may some day
be required to teach, should know the operations of the mind,
how it receives, retains, and may best apply knowledge. An
essential companion of this study is physiology, the science
of the nature and functions of the bodily organs, together
with its corollary, hygiene, the care of the health. From
ancient times psychology and physiology have been considered
as equally associated and of prime importance. "A sound mind
in a sound body" is an old Latin proverb. The need of every
one to "know himself," both in mind and body, was taught by
the earliest "Wise Men" of Greece. The Roman emperor Tiberius
said that any one who had reached the age of thirty in
ignorance of his physical constitution was a fool, a thought
that has been modernized, with an unnecessary extension of
the age, into the proverb, "At forty a man is either a fool
or a physician."
The study of psychology is a basis for every employment or
activity which has to deal with enlightenment or persuasion
of the public. The person who would like to become a speaker
or writer needs to begin with it rather than with the study
of elocution or rhetoric. The first thing essential for him
to know is himself; the second, his hearers or
readers—what is the order of progress in their
enlightenment. Even logical development of a subject is
subsidiary to the practical psychological order. Formal
logic, the analysis of the process of reasoning, is a
cultural study rather than a practical one, save in criticism
both of one's own work and another's. More cultural, and at
the same time more practical, is the study of exact reasoning
in the form of some branch of mathematics. Abraham Lincoln,
when he "rode the circuit" as a lawyer, carried with him a
geometry, which he studied at every opportunity. To the
mental training which it gave him was due his success not
only as a lawyer, but also as a political orator. Every one
of his speeches was as complete a demonstration of its theme
as a proposition in Euclid is of its theorem. Lincoln once
said that "demonstration" was the greatest word in the
language.
Delineation of character is the chief element of fiction, and
herein literary aspirants are particularly weak, especially
the women, far more of whom than men try their hand at short
stories and novels, and who are generally without that
preliminary experience in journalism which most of the male
writers have undergone. It is not enough for a novelist to
"know life"; he must also know the literary aspect of life,
must have the imaginative power to select and adapt actual
experiences artistically. Young women who write are prone to
record things "just as they happened." This is a mistake.
Aristotle laid down the fundamental principle of creative
work in his statement that the purpose of art is to fulfil
the incomplete designs of nature—that is, aid nature by
using her speech, yet telling her story the way she ought to
have told it but did not. This is his great doctrine of
"poetic justice."
The writing of children's stories is peculiarly the province
of the woman author, and here, because of her knowledge of
the mind of the child, she is apt to be most successful. The
best of stories about children and for children have been
written by school-teachers. Of these authors a notable
instance was the late Myra Kelly, whose adaptations in story
form of her experiences as a teacher to the foreign
population of the "East Side" of New York will long remain as
models of their kind.
Journalism is a sufficient field in itself for a woman writer
in which to exercise her ability, as well as a preparation
for creative literary work. The natural way to enter it is by
becoming the local correspondent of one of the newspapers of
the region. In this work good judgment in the choice of items
of news, variety in the manner of stating them, and logical
order in arranging and connecting them should be cultivated.
The writing of good, plain English, rather than "smart"
journalese should be the aim. Stale, vulgar and incorrect
phrases, such as "Sundayed," and "in our midst," should be
avoided. There are two tests in selecting a news item: (1)
Will it interest readers? (2) Ought they to know it? When by
these tests an item is proved to be real news that demands
publication, it should be published regardless of a third
consideration, which is too often made a primary one: Will it
please the persons concerned? This consideration should have
weight only in regard to the manner of its statement. When
the news is disagreeable to the parties concerned, it should
be told with all kindness and charity. Thus the facts of a
crime should be stated, who was arrested for it, etc.; but
there should be no positive statement of the guilt of the one
arrested until this has been legally proved. Many a publisher
has had to pay heavy damages because he has overlooked, or
permitted to be published, an unwarranted statement or
opinion of a reporter or correspondent. But even though there
were no law against libel, the commandment against bearing
false witness holds in ethics.
The woman at home may also become a contributor to the
newspaper. Her first articles should be statements of fact on
practical subjects, such as the results of her own or some
neighbor's experiments in a household matter of general
interest, or reminiscences of matters of local history that
happen to be of current interest. Thus when a new church is
erected, the history of the old one may be properly told.
Here the amateur journalist may practise herself in
interviewing people.
After such a preparation as this, one may confidently enter
the active profession of journalism as a reporter, preferably
upon the paper for which she has been writing. Since in
entering any profession opportunity for improvement and
advancement in it is the first consideration, the young
reporter should cheerfully accept the low salary that is paid
beginners. There is no discrimination on account of sex in
the newspaper world. Copy is paid for according to its amount
and quality, regardless of whether it was written by a woman
or a man. Women labor here, as elsewhere, under physical
disabilities in comparison with men, and yet in compensation
they have the advantage over men in their special adaptation
to certain features of newspaper work, such as the
interviewing of women, writing household and fashion
articles, etc. There are more chances for this kind of
special work in large cities, and here the aspiring newspaper
woman may go, when she has proved her ability.
Mrs. Ida Husted Harper, who stands in the front rank of
newspaper women, has tersely stated the duties a woman
reporter must undertake and the sacrifices she must make, as
follows: "The woman who wishes to be a newspaper reporter
should ask herself if she is able to toil from eight to
fifteen hours of the day, seven days in the week; if she is
willing to take whatever assignment may be given; to go
wherever sent, to accomplish what she is delegated to do, at
whatever risk, or rebuff, or inconvenience; to brave all
kinds of weather; to give up the frivolities of dress that
women love and confine herself to a plain serviceable suit;
to renounce practically the pleasures of social life; to put
her relations to others on a business basis; to subordinate
personal desires and eliminate the 'ego'; to be careful
always to disarm prejudice against and create an impression
favorable to women in this occupation; to expect no favors on
account of sex; to submit her work to the same standard by
which a man's is judged."
The salaries earned by women as reporters are, with a few
notable exceptions, not large. As low as $8 and $10 a week
are paid to beginners; from $15 to $25 a week is considered a
fair salary, and $30 a week an exceptionally good one for a
woman who has not received recognition as a thoroughly
experienced reporter.
It is from the ranks of newspaper women who have gone to the
large cities and made a name for themselves as capable
reporters that the editorial staffs of the magazines are
recruited. As a rule they obtain their introductions by
magazine contributions chiefly of special articles on
subjects in which they have made themselves experts. The
salaries of these positions range from $25 a week for
assistant editors to $50 and upward for the heads of
departments.
Book publishers employ women of this class to edit and
compile works upon their specialties. Quite a number of women
in New York earn several thousand dollars a year each at such
work, while continuing their regular editorial labors.
Many newspaper women drift naturally into advertising
writing, which is well-paid for when cleverly done. Since the
goods chiefly advertised are largely for women, women have
the preference as writers of advertisements. Then, too,
manufacturers and advertising agents pay well for ideas
useful in promoting the commodities of themselves or their
clients. Here the woman at home may find out whether she has
special ability as an advertising writer, by thinking out new
and catchy ideas for the promotion of articles which she sees
are widely advertised, and mailing these to the
manufacturers. It is well if she have artistic ability, so
that she may make designs of the ideas, though this is not
essential.
It is the advertising columns of the newspapers and
magazines, even more than the reading matter, which give a
demand for work in illustration. To the woman who has talent
rather than genius in drawing, illustration and commercial
art afford a far safer field, in respect to remuneration,
than the making of oil-paintings and water-colors. If ability
in drawing is conjoined with ability in designing and writing
advertisements, the earnings are more than doubled. Since
payment for the individual drawing is more customary than
employing an artist at a fixed salary, illustrating and the
designing of advertisements can be done at home. There are
many young girls just out of the art-school who earn from $25
to $50 a week by such "piece-work."
Akin to this work is the designing of book-covers, for which
publishers pay from $15 to $25 each.
Of a more mechanical nature is making the drawings for
commercial catalogues, and the prices paid are low, $9 a week
being the rule for beginners. Designers of patterns, etc.,
for various manufacturers receive a similar amount at first.
They may hope, after several years of experience, to rise to
$25 a week, or possibly $30 or $35.
CHAPTER II
THE SINGLE WOMAN
Teaching—Teaching Women in Society—Parliamentary
Law—Games—Book-reviewing—Manuscript-reading
for Publishers—Library Work—Teaching Music and
Painting—Home Study of Professional Housework—The
Unmarried Daughter at Home—The Woman in
Business—Her Relation to Her Employer—Securing an
Increase of Salary—The Woman of Independent
Means—Her Civic and Social Duties.
Teaching is a profession that is particularly the province of
the unmarried woman. The best teachers are those who have
chosen it as their life-work, and have therefore thoroughly
prepared themselves for it. A girl who takes a school
position merely for the money that there is in it, expecting
to give it up in a year or so, when she hopes to marry, is
inflicting a grievous wrong on the children under her charge.
There are other remunerative employments where her lack of
serious intention will not be productive of lasting injury.
Lack of preparation for teaching generally goes with this
lack of intention, doubling the injury. Against this the
examination for the school certificate is not always a
sufficient safeguard, since many girls are clever enough to
"cram up" sufficiently to pass the examination who have not
had the perseverance necessary to master the subjects they
are to teach, not to speak of that interest in the broad
subject of pedagogy, without which the application of its
principles in teaching the various branches is certain to be
neglected. Enthusiasm in her profession, a whole-hearted
interest in each pupil as an individual personality should
characterize every teacher, for next to the mother, she plays
the most important part in the development of the coming
generation.
There is a general complaint that the salaries of
school-teachers are too low, measured by the rewards of
persons of corresponding ability in other professions. When,
however, the certainty of pay and the virtual assurance that
the employment is for life if good service is rendered, are
considered, together with the respect accorded the teacher by
the community and the fact that her work necessarily tends to
the cultivation of her mind, the lot of the school-teacher
must be reckoned as one of the most favored. Americans are
more prone than any other people to spend money on education,
and this spirit is ever increasing, so that the
school-teacher is more certain than the member of any other
profession that she will be rewarded worthily in the future.
The establishment of the Carnegie pension fund for retired
college professors is an indication of this growing spirit,
as well as the recent advance of the salaries of public
school teachers in New York City and elsewhere, in
recognition of the increase in the cost of living.
To the bright woman who is interested in the study of civics,
political economy, and sociology, there is opportunity to
earn a living at home by organizing classes in these subjects
among the club-women of her town. Teachers of parliamentary
law are in especial demand. The organization of a mock
congress for parliamentary practise is the most entertaining
as well as the most improving play in which women can join.
There is also a demand among women who seek an intellectual
element in their recreation for instruction in the games of
bridge-whist, whist, and chess. Bridge-whist is the most
popular, largely because of the desire to win money and
valuable prizes at the game. Then, too, a greater amount of
time is spent at it than is legitimate for recreation. For
moral reasons, therefore, the teaching of it cannot be
recommended. Straight whist is also played occasionally for
money, but this practise, happily, is rapidly becoming
obsolete. Chess, except among professionals, is played purely
for sport, and is therefore the best of games to study.
Unfortunately there is very little demand for instruction in
it by women; nevertheless, it is the best of all games for
cultivating the analytical power of the mind, a faculty in
which women, as a rule, are weak.
This power may, with equal pleasure and greater profit, be
gained by paying special attention, in the reading of books
and magazines, to literary style and construction. The
average reader assimilates only a small percentage of what he
reads. The careful thought which the author puts into his
manner of presentation, no less than into the matter, is
appreciated by very few of his readers, and by these only to
a limited extent. Especially is this true of fiction. If one
wishes to become an author, he should first cultivate this
power of criticism, always accompanying the study by
exercises in reconstruction of faults in the author read.
Thus, wherever a sentence appears awkward in expression, the
reader should revise it; wherever there is a seeming error in
the logical development of a subject, or the psychological
development of a fictitious character, he should reconstruct
it. Nothing is so helpful to a writer as self-criticism. Thus
Mrs. Humphrey Ward has recently confessed that the happy
ending of her "Lady Rose's Daughter" was an artistic error,
false to psychology, her heroine being doomed to unhappiness
by her character. After creating his characters, and placing
them in situations where their individuality has proper scope
for action, the author must let them work out their own
salvation. A thoroughly artistic work is marked throughout by
the quality of "the inevitable," and for this the reader
should always be seeking. There is no surer indication of
shallowness than the desire to read only about pleasant
subjects and characters and events. It is akin to the habit
of ignoring the existence of everything disagreeable in life,
which Dickens has satirized in his character, Mr. Podsnap.
And "Podsnappery" exists among women even more than among
men, because of their more sensitive emotional nature. If
women are to join with men in making the world better, they
must not blink at the misery and vice about them, and the
evil elements in human nature and society which produce
these. To be good and brave is better for a grown woman than
to be "sweet" and "innocent," in the limited sense of these
terms. A woman, like a man, should, "see life steadily, and
see it whole."
The foundation of a critical habit in reading has a practical
bearing, inasmuch as it is a direct training for the
positions of book-reviewer and manuscript reader for magazine
and book publishers. Since women read more than men, the
woman's view of a manuscript is often preferred by
publishers. Therefore there are more women than men in the
position of literary adviser. These are paid salaries ranging
from $25 to $50 a week. Manuscripts are read by the piece for
from $3 to $5 each. Book reviews are paid for at all prices,
from the possession of the book alone to the payment of a
cent a word. It is best for the aspiring critic to practice
herself on book reviews first. In these she can with profit
display her power to analyze the artistic construction of
books, and so develop her abilities as a manuscript reader.
The knowledge of books and the ability to digest their
contents are necessary to the making of a library worker, an
employment which the great increase in libraries, through the
benefaction of Andrew Carnegie and others, is offering to
thousands of American women. The salaries are low, but in
considering entering upon the work, weight should be given to
the opportunities for literary knowledge and culture it
affords and its refined surroundings. The making of a
descriptive catalogue of the home library, using the card
index system, forms an ideal test for the young woman who is
uncertain whether she has the taste and ability required in
this sort of work. To the student in the home, even though
she intends to follow some other vocation, such as teaching
or writing, such an inventory of her intellectual store-house
will be invaluable. It matters not how small the library is,
for "intensive cultivation" is as profitable in mental
culture as in agriculture.
Even such accomplishments as music and painting are most
cultural when pursued as if the intention of the student were
to teach them. Knowledge of technique and of the methods by
which its difficulties are overcome is the foundation of all
appreciation of art. The only true connoisseur is the one who
can enter into the delight felt by the artist in creating his
work. Exercise leads to invention. The ancients well said
that the contortions of the sibyl generated her inspiration.
Critics have been sneeringly defined as "those who have
failed in literature and art," but this is not true of the
greatest critics, who never carried their creative work to
the point of success simply because they had found a better
vocation in criticism before reaching such a point. What a
loss to the world it would have been had Ruskin developed
into a painter, even a great one, instead of the master
interpreter and teacher of painting that he did become!
Household employments, such as cooking, needlework, etc., as
vocations for the unmarried woman, no less than the married,
need only be mentioned here, as their appropriateness for the
girl at home is obvious, and they are fully discussed
elsewhere in this series. It should be suggested, however,
that the greater leisure of the unmarried woman enables her
to try experiments in these subjects while the married
housewife is too fully occupied by the routine of her duties
to undertake them. Indeed, if a woman become a notable cook
after marriage, it is often a sign that she is not a notable
wife or mother.
It is an old saying that,
"My son's my son till he gets him a wife,
But my daughter's my daughter all her life."
By the common bond of sex, a daughter is her mother's natural
companion in sympathy, however separated from her in
distance. Therefore, when she lives at home, what a special
obligation is there to be her mother's comfort and
dependence! Even though she acquire greater skill in
household affairs, she should still resign herself to the
subordinate place of assistant.
The thought that she is becoming useless is the chief dread
of a woman who has been a managing worker all her life, and
her daughter should carefully avoid bringing this to her
mind, indeed, should so act that the ageing mother retains
the management of the house, even though her labors diminish.
In respect to the direction of children, the elder daughter
should take a hint from the manner in which the
school-teacher supplements rather than supplants the mother
in her care of the young people, leading to a difference in
the kind of regard which these feel for them. The sister
should always consider herself simply as the eldest, most
experienced of the children, and so the natural monitor of
the group, and, when necessary, the mediator with the
parents.
In a similar fashion the unmarried woman should act toward
her neighbors who are wives and mothers. In matters where the
interests of children and households are of chief concern she
should resign the leadership to the married women, and, after
them, to the professional teachers. Religious, social, and
civic matters, wherein as a church member and a citizen she
is on an equal footing with wives and teachers, afford her
ample scope for exercising her instinct for leadership.
Every unmarried woman who lives alone should, whether or not
she possess an income, have a vocation. Earnings and wages
are not alone good in themselves, but are an additional
gratification, in that they supply a proof that the earner's
service is of worth to the world. Some day, when social
conditions are so adjusted that economic competition is
really free, and wealth cannot be obtained save by service,
money will be a proper measure of standing in the community.
It is all the more a duty now, both to herself, her class,
and to society, that the woman who works should contend to
the last cent for her part of the wealth that is created by
the business in which she is engaged. Where her work is equal
to a man's, she should contend for wages equal to his; where
it is inferior, she should be willing to accept less; where
superior, she should demand more. In these matters women are
apt to be either too complaisant or too clamorous. They
should first be sure that they are justified in their claims,
and then, if right, be firm in their demands, and, if wrong,
be resigned to abandon them. The law of supply and demand
acting in the labor market allots wages between workers with
natural justice—certainly more equitably than the
interested opinion either of employer or employee.
It will be seen that the woman in business needs to study the
fundamental elements of political economy even more than the
housewife. Books and magazines are filled with superficial,
obvious advice as to the way in which women as employees
should conduct themselves toward their employers and fellow
workers, but rarely is there a hint given of the actual
rights and obligations of these relations, upon which the
proper conduct is based.
Employment is a business contract between employer and
employee, in which there is no legal or moral obligation for
either party to exceed the terms. Owing to an over-supply of
labor, wages may be exceedingly low, even down to the
starvation point, but for this condition the employer, if he
be not also a monopolist, is not responsible. Indeed, as
employer, his presence in the labor market as an element of
demand raises the market wage. In fact, it is only by his
increasing his business that he can raise wages. If he pay
more to his employees than he needs to, or is profitable for
him, this increase is not real wages, but a gratuity,
something no self-respecting person likes to take. Some other
class in society created this condition, and it is this class
that the low-paid workers should blame, and, as citizens,
take measures against, not the employers. Indeed, they should
consider these as their natural allies in making better
economic conditions.
Accordingly, the woman in business should have sympathy for
her employer, who owing to the prevalent condition of
shackled competition has troubles of his own. She should aid
him by loyal, efficient work, thus, and only thus,
establishing a moral claim upon him to recognize her loyalty
in kind. Personal relations, except of this nature, should
not be sought by the employee, particularly if she is a
woman. Outside of the office or shop she may meet and treat
her employer as a fellow citizen and member of society, under
the common rights of citizenship and the proper social rules,
but in business hours she should obey the strict ethics of
business. Thus she may don what dress she will when her work
is done, adopt all the eccentricities of fashion she pleases,
but she should wear with cheerfulness, and even pride, the
simple dress prescribed, for good and sufficient reasons, as
her working costume. Even when no such regulations are made,
her good sense and taste should lead her to adopt a modest,
practical working dress, simple mode of arranging the hair,
etc. This is always agreeable to customers, and it is by
pleasing these she best pleases her employer.
Stenographers and secretaries have a special obligation to
keep sacred the confidences of their employers. If they find
that in so doing they are made instruments in perpetrating
frauds on other business men, or the community in general,
they have no right to expose these. Their only proper course
is to resign their positions, holding sacred, however, the
knowledge gained while acting as employees. It is only when
formally relieved of this obligation by legal compulsion to
testify in court that they may reveal this knowledge.
While it is the custom of an employer to demand references of
the employee, and not give them for himself, the only safe
course for a woman seeking employment is to look into the
character of the man for whom she is to work, and the nature
of his business. This she may do indirectly in the case of
character, and directly in the case of nature of business. If
the employer refuses to impart this, saying, "Your work will
be to do whatever I ask you," it is a blind, and therefore
dangerous contract into which you are entering, and you
should withdraw from it in time.
When an employee has proved her efficiency, and has seen that
it is producing an amount of returns to the business of which
she is not receiving her proportionate share, it is her right
and duty to ask for an increase in wages. If she fails to
receive this, she should investigate the conditions in the
labor market of her class, and guide her action accordingly.
If she finds that there is a demand for workers of her
ability at the higher wage, she should again proffer her
request to her employer, with a statement of this fact. If he
still refuses the increase, she should resign her position,
upon proper notice, and seek employment elsewhere.
When the unmarried woman employs herself in free service for
the public good there will be no need for her to contend for
the proper returns, which will be the love and respect of the
community, given her in full measure. In comparison with
these rewards, the honors of club president and society
leader, for which many women contend with a rivalry that
surpasses in bitterness contests for political honors among
men, are mean and empty. The words of the Master to His
disciples, that he who would be first among them should be
servant to his fellows, should be taken to heart by American
women, before whom are opening new and vast opportunities for
the display of pride and ambition no less than for modest,
faithful service.
CHAPTER III
THE WIFE
Nature's Intention in Marriage—The Woman's Crime in
Marrying for Support—Her Blunder in Marrying an
Inefficient Man for Love—The Proper Union—Mutual
Aid of Husband and Wife—Manipulating a Husband—By
Deceit—By Tact—Confidence Between Man and Wife.
"Her very soul is in home, and in the discharge of all those
quiet virtues of which home is the centre. Her husband will
be to her the object of all her care, solicitude and
affection. She will see nothing but by him, and through him.
If he is a man of sense and virtue, she will sympathize in
his sorrows, divert his fatigue, and share his pleasures. If
she becomes the property of a churlish or negligent husband,
she will suit his taste also, for she will not long survive
his unkindness."—SIR WALTER
SCOTT—Waverley.
Marriage is the crown of woman's life, a dignity that is all
the more honorable because it is of general expectation and
realization. There is a presumption that the unmarried woman
has missed the central and significant reason for her
existence, the perpetuation and nurture of the race, and that
the burden is upon her for compensating society by other
services for this lost opportunity. Marriage for a woman
means attainment first and fulfilment after, the reward given
in advance of labor, and therefore entailing a special moral
obligation that it be justified in its fruits. Nature gives
the future mother peace of mind, rest from doubt as to career
and from responsibility as to breadwinning, in order that she
may tranquilly devote herself to her special function as the
maker of the home.
The fact that in the normal home the wife is relieved from
the necessity of earning the living of the home sometimes has
the effect of making her careless about expenditure. The
thoughtless wife, and here thoughtless means selfish, assumes
that the problem of providing is "up to" the husband and
takes no care to aid him in its solution. If the suggestion
of her being a burden to him ever does cross her mind, she is
ready to excuse herself by consolatory sayings such as "Two
can live cheaper than one," the truth of which, though
universal when every wife was a producer of such things as
clothing that are now bought is now the case only in
agricultural homes, and even there has lost a great deal of
its force. Men do not marry now, as they once did, for
economic reasons, but rather in spite of them, for the higher
rewards of love and companionship of wife and children, and
this the wife should recognize by giving her husband the
things for which he has made his economic sacrifice. In the
old days a man who did not marry paid for his liberty by loss
of physical comfort and wealth. Thus Hesiod, one of the
earliest Greek poets, in his Farmer's Almanac called "Works
and Days," coupled the marrying of a wife with the purchase
of a yoke of oxen and a plow as the first things needful in
beginning to farm, and this in despite of the fact that he
was a woman-hater.
Now it is the woman who is tempted to marry for economic
reasons, to be certain of material support while she
exercises herself in those household avocations and social
pleasures which constitute the main activities of women. This
is a legitimate consideration only when the interest of the
man is also taken into account. Marriage to a man whom she
does not love is a crime for any woman; giving falsely the
offerings of love for material things is harlotry even though
legitimated by vows and ceremonies.
On the other hand, marriage for love to a man who cannot
support her is a sad mistake for a woman who is not able or
willing to take the place of breadwinner, for such a union
defeats its own purpose. Therefore, in kindness to the man as
well as to herself, such a woman should satisfy herself that
he can support her, not necessarily in "the style to which
she has been accustomed," but in the style necessary for her
to perform the duties of homemaker and mother. Those
marriages are the happiest where a wife can also enter into
sympathy with her husband's business ambitions in particular
and ideals of life in general. Here she is peculiarly his
helpmate. He can hire a housekeeper, but not a companion of
his bosom.
A girl properly reared will naturally be drawn to a man
complementary to her in character—not "opposite," as is
so often said. Opposition implies antagonism, which would be
the ruin of home life. The term complementary implies
similarity in the main elements of character with adaptable
differences. Good qualities, such as strength and delicacy,
may complement each other, but not evil and good qualities,
such as brutality and tenderness. As Scott says in the
quotation at the head of this chapter, a tender wife may suit
the taste of a churlish husband, but only by not long
surviving his unkindness. While such opposition may not
result in actual death, it certainly leads to the demise of
all that makes life worth living.
A woman should not expect to find a perfect husband. Indeed,
her chief usefulness to him will be in her strengthening his
weak points, and cultivating his right inclinations until
they are confirmed habits. Yet in this work she should
realize the imperfections in herself, and respond to the
similar aid he gives her by his example and suggestions.
Mutual aid is the great bond of marriage, as it is of all
human relations.
Women, from their weaker condition, have from ages past been
trained to gain their desires from men by indirection. In the
worst form, this appears as deceit; in the best, as tact.
Laying aside the moral aspect, deceit is always unwise in a
wife, since, in time, it defeats its own end. Many a woman
thinks that she is deceiving her husband, since she wins her
points, when he thoroughly recognizes her machinations, and
accedes to them without contest simply for peace in the
household, acquiring a feeling of moral superiority to her
which, though it may be tolerant, is nevertheless
contemptuous. But when she employs loving tact, especially in
the improvement of her husband's habits and traits, even
though he realizes it, he is at heart grateful for it, and
proud of his wife's superiority in these points.
In those matters where the characters of husband and wife are
strong enough to permit frankness, this should always be
employed. In all the grave problems of life there should be
perfect confidence between the pair who have taken the solemn
vows of wedlock. Any third party that enjoys a superior
confidence with one of them, whether relative or friend, even
the pastor or family physician, is the man invoked against in
the marriage charge, who "puts them asunder." Where unhappily
the husband is irreligious and the wife is forced to seek
confidential help and consolation of her spiritual adviser,
she should strictly limit these to religious matters, else
she will grow apart from her husband. George Moore, in his
collection of stories entitled, "The Untilled Field,"
presents the propensity of women in Ireland to run to the
priest for guidance on every question, as the chief cause of
their domestic tragedies. In America the family physician is
as apt as the pastor to be made the recipient of such
confidences, with evil results where he is not wise enough to
advise that the husband is the proper person to whom the wife
should go.
CHAPTER IV
THE HOUSE
Elements in Choice of a Home—The City
Apartment—Furniture for a Temporary
Home—Couches—Rugs—Bookcases—The
Suburban and Country House—Economic
Considerations—Buying an Old House—Building a New
One—Supervising the Building—The Woman's Wishes.
Of love, of joy, of peace and plenty: where,
Supporting and supported, polished friends
And dear relations mingle into bliss.
JAMES THOMSON—The Seasons
When husband and wife are truly mated, they form a
co-partnership in the building of the home. In this work the
man, occupied with his business, must leave a large part of
the direction, even in material things, to the woman. And
these material things are of primary consideration, as they
are apt to be in every problem of life. The happiness of home
is immediately and always dependent on the kind of a house
used for dwelling and its equipment for utility and comfort.
The first thing to be considered is the location of the home.
The choice of a good neighborhood, from both social and
sanitary viewpoints, is essential. Good neighbors are almost
as necessary as good air and good drainage. Even before the
children have come, it is a limitation on the function of a
home for husband and wife to be forced to seek social life
entirely outside the neighborhood. If charity (that is,
loving, helpful associations) begins at home, it certainly
does not stop at the threshold, or leap therefrom over those
nearest us. The best citizens are those who take a human
interest in the people of their street, or ward, or village,
for influence in civic reform is dependent on neighborliness.
Children are good citizens in this respect by nature. Limited
to association with children of the neighborhood, they form
an affection for their playmates, which may lead to good or
evil results, as these playmates are moral or vicious in
their tendencies. Therefore, at the formative period of
character children should be guarded from the debasing
influences of improper companions, as well as such
institutions as saloons and low dance-halls which are
generally found to be the local causes of bad neighbors.
Of course, a neighborhood should be selected where there are
good public schools, churches, and allied institutions for
education and culture. It is always a loss to a child in this
democratic country to be educated in a private school, and
yet, especially in cities, careful parents are often
compelled to resort to private instruction for their girls
and boys because of the lack of refining influences in the
public schools. This is why it is often better for families,
when the father works in the city, to live in the suburbs,
where, as a rule, the best public schools are to be found.
But it may not be feasible to live out of the city,
especially in the first years of married life, and therefore
the home life must begin in an apartment. The same sanitary
considerations that obtain in choice of a neighborhood are
essential in the choice of a flat. Good air, light, space,
proper plumbing, and general cleanness are to be sought.
Owing to the general demand for these advantages, and a
limited supply of them which is due to economic conditions
prevailing in our cities, they unfortunately require money,
therefore, the flat-seeker is compelled to do the best he can
with that part of his income which he may safely appropriate
for rent. As a rule, this amount is not more than one-fourth
of income.
When an apartment house has been properly built, and the
walls are settled and the plastering dry, it generally comes
up to the standard of comfort and health. Here the latest
improvements in plumbing will be apt to be found, and there
will be no danger of vermin. Then, too, a concession is more
apt to be made by the landlord, who is anxious to secure
tenants, by remission of a month's or a fortnight's rent, to
be taken out after the first month. The landlord of such a
house is also readier than the owner of an old one to make
decorations, and even alterations, to suit the taste of the
tenant.
The walls in the kitchen should be painted rather than
papered, and other parts of the flat designed primarily for
utility. Since light is the great desideratum, the paint, as
a rule, should be light in color, though soft and tinted in
tone for restfulness to the eye. Where wallpaper is used, it
should have the same characteristics. Fanciful designs should
be avoided. Indeed, plain paper forms the best base for
artistic color schemes in the decoration of rooms, the
variety in which is best obtained by the choice of furniture
and pictures and other wall ornaments.
When there is a prospect that living in apartments will be
only a temporary arrangement, the furniture should be chosen
with a view to its adaptability for a house. Thus
folding-beds should be avoided, and other articles that gain
space by complexity, however ingenious. Simplicity is the
quality to be desired. Thus if the exigency of space requires
that a living room by day be converted into a sleeping room,
a couch should be bought for it, instead of a folding bed. It
will then serve the purpose of a sofa as well as a bed. If it
is a box couch, further economy will be gained by its use as
a place to store the bedclothes. But the simplest of all
arrangements is a divan bed, formed of springs and mattress
alone, and supported on legs nailed to the corners of the
spring-frame. Over it a cover should be thrown during the
day, and the pillows in use, if there is not room for them
elsewhere, should be slipped into covers harmonious in color
with the couch drapery. Such a reclining and sleeping couch
may also be used in bedrooms, although an iron or brass
bedstead gives an appearance of neatness and personal privacy
that is desirable in such chambers.
Where there is lack of closet space and lockers, trunks can
be utilized in a flat for storing things. Steamer trunks that
can be placed beneath the beds and couches are therefore the
best kind to buy. They can also be readily converted into
window seats by making pads of cotton batting to fit the
tops, and placing over them covers and pillow cushions
harmonious with the decoration of the room. Long flat
"wardrobe trunks" are sold, which contain at one end rods for
hanging clothes, so that, when stood up on the other end
against the wall they serve as wardrobes. They always look,
however, like makeshifts, and so are more useful in
travelling than in the home.
Rugs are more desirable than carpets in a city apartment,
since they can be more readily cleaned, and, in case of
moving to another flat or a house in the suburbs, will be
more adaptable to the new situation.
Bookcases in a temporary home should be of the unit system,
where each shelf is a separate box enabling the books to be
moved without repacking, and permitting rearrangement to suit
the new situation, or the acquisition of new books. Where,
however, the lower part of wall space is desired to give room
for articles of furniture such as couches, shelves can be
built, beginning at four and one-half or five feet above the
floor. Mr. Edwin Markham, the poet, whose home overflows with
books, has greatly economized space by building for them a
broad lower shelf, about eighteen inches wide, and, three
inches above this, another shelf twelve inches wide, and,
three inches above this, a third six inches wide. When these
are filled with books the titles of all are exposed, and, by
taking out the volume or two immediately in front, a volume
on one of the back shelves is readily obtained. Thus, by
walking about his room, Mr. Markham can look with level eyes
for the book he wants, and procure it without recourse to a
chair or stepladder. This plan of banking books also lends
itself to a decorative arrangement of them.
Except in matters such as these, where economy is imperative,
the furnishing of a city apartment does not differ
essentially from that of a house, and the reader is therefore
referred to the discussion of this in the following pages.
The suburban, village, or country home differs from the city
apartment, or even city house, in that it has been built
without the primary consideration of space. It is separated
from other houses, even though by the narrowest space of
green lawn, that gives a house the individuality and
independence without which it is hard for it to gather the
associations of home. Even when a detached house is found in
a city, its architecture is generally hampered by its
adaptation to its narrow grounds. It rarely has that rounded
development of character which is as desirable in a home as
in a person.
In selecting a rented home in the suburbs, the cost of the
husband's transportation to and from the city should be added
to the rent to keep this within the proper ratio to income,
just as the difference in price of provisions should be
considered in that portion allotted to food. Provisions, even
country produce, are often dearer in suburban communities
than in the city, and less saving can be made by close
marketing, because the farmers and gardeners find it more
profitable to send their produce to the center of greatest
demand, and therefore of readiest sale, even though it costs
more for transportation than to the smaller markets near by.
So suburban grocers and provision men are wont to buy in the
city markets, and add the cost of transportation back from
the city, and an additional profit for the transaction, to
the price to the consumer.
Owing to the close competition for householders among
real-estate men, it is now almost as easy to purchase a
suburban home as it is to rent one, and it is therefore
advisable to do this. The interest on purchase, and the fixed
charges of taxes, insurance, water rent, etc., should be
counted as rent, but a higher percentage of income may be
safely allotted to these than to rent proper, since the
purchase is also an investment. As a rule, the increase of
land value near a growing city will considerably exceed the
diminution in the value of the improvements. Indeed, owing to
the constant advance of cost of building material in recent
years, there is often enhancement rather than depreciation in
the house value.
For these economic reasons it is advisable to buy an old
house when its cost is less than the cost of constructing a
new one of the same desirability. The home-seeker, however,
should curb his propensity to make extensive alterations,
for, one leading to another, he will find at the end (if he
ever reaches it) that he has virtually built a new house at a
cost greater than he could afford.
On the other hand, he should avoid those houses built on
speculation to sell. In these a showy appearance is gained at
the expense of durability of construction, and the purchaser
will find that he must pay in plumbing, coal bills, and
general repairs an amount he had not calculated upon as
interest on the home, for, unless he rebuilds the house at
ruinous expense, these will be annual charges.
The most satisfactory way, and the one leading to great
enjoyment in satisfying the "nest-building" instinct which
possesses newly mated people no less than birds, is for the
owners themselves to plan and superintend the building of the
home. There is an infinite variety of architectural plans
spread before the homeseeker in books and magazines. An
examination of these will be of great value to him in
clarifying his hazy ideas, but he should not settle upon any
one of them without expert opinion. He should employ a local
architect, or at least a builder with practical architectural
ideas, to examine every feature of the plan selected as
nearest the homeseeker's ideal, and revise it according to
local conditions, cost and availability of material, etc.
Money is always well spent that relieves one of
responsibility, enabling him to say thereafter, "Well, I did
every thing I could to have the thing done properly."
The woman's wish should be paramount in planning the
building. The home is her workshop, and she should have every
convenience she requires to do her work properly. Things that
appear of minor importance to a man, the architect and
builder no less than her husband, are to her most vital. What
pockets are to a man or business woman in clothes, closets
and shelves are to a woman in her house, and yet she usually
has to fight for them with the architect as the business
woman does for pockets with her dressmaker. Unless she has
worked out the practicability of her ideas, however, she will
be at a great disadvantage with the experts, and therefore it
is wise for her to make herself as familiar as possible with
the main principles of building and the special details of
the improvements she desires, especially as this knowledge
will be of great use in seeing that the work is done as
ordered. Where she has not acquired this knowledge, and the
husband is either incompetent or not free to undertake this
supervision, it is well to employ a contractor, arranging for
thorough, satisfactory work, and holding him strictly to the
contract.
The prime requisite in a house is that it be adapted for home
life, be a comfortable place in which to sleep, cook, eat,
rest and read, talk and laugh, and play and pray; in a word,
in which to do all the work that enables these necessities
and pleasures to be obtained. Next to the comfort of the
family comes that of the outside world. It is desirable,
though not essential, that the home contain facilities for
entertaining.
CHAPTER V
THE HOUSE
Essential Parts of a House—Double Use of
Rooms—Utility of Piazzas—Landscape
Gardening—Water-supply—Water-power—Illumination—Dangers
from Gas—How to Read a Gas-meter—How to Test
Kerosene—Care of Lamps—Use of
Candles—Making the Best of the Old House.
The parts that are desirable in a well-ordered house may be
enumerated as follows: Cellar, the kitchen, the storehouse,
the pantry, the laundry, the dining-room, the living or
sitting-room, the lavatory, the parlor, the hall, the
library, the nursery, the sewing-room, the bedrooms,
including guest chamber, the attic, the piazzas.
Where economy of space must be practiced, storehouse and
pantry may be combined, and nursery and sewing-room; and one
of the family bedrooms may be devoted to the use of the
occasional guest. The hall may be thrown into the parlor. The
parlor may be properly converted into a library and music
room, although when the father is of retiring literary
tastes, he should have a "den" of his own, where he may read
and smoke in peace.
The parlor is too often wasted space in a house. As the "best
room," and very often the largest room, it is reserved for
reception of guests, weddings, and funerals, and at other
times shut up in gloomy grandeur from the family, except,
perhaps, as the place of banishment for a naughty child.
Except when used as a library and music room, it should be
one of the smallest in the house, and may, indeed, be
entirely dispensed with. The family living-room is not an
improper place in which to receive a guest, especially one
whom it is desired should "feel at home."
Of the rooms for the family, the nursery is the best to
dispense with, the very young children being kept under the
mother's oversight in her sewing-room, or the attic, or a
loft in an out-building being fitted up for the elder ones as
a play-room. In the case of the loft, it is well to equip it
as a simple gymnasium.
It is mistaken economy to use the living-room as a
dining-room, since this interferes with the orderly work of
the house, no less than with the comfort of the family. It
may with propriety, however, be made also the sewing-room,
and, in general, the mother's managerial office. Here she
should keep her desk and her household account-books, and
meet the tradesmen and other business callers. It is also
more suited than the parlor for use as a family reading-room
and working library. Disorder that betokens use, such as
magazines on the center-table, or of papers on the desk, is
here not inappropriate. Indeed, it gives a homelike
appearance even to the social guest.
China and glassware and silver arranged in proper array in
wall closets, cabinets, and sideboards are the most
appropriate decorations of the dining-room. It is not at all
necessary that there should be pictures on the wall of game,
fruit and flowers, or "still life" studies of vegetables and
kitchen utensils. Indeed, these have become so expected that
a change is quite a relief to a guest, who would welcome even
the death's head that was the invariable ornament of the
Egyptian feasts. Any pictures which are lively and cheerful
in suggestion are suitable. Those that have a story to tell
or a lesson to point are never out of place in a room
frequented by children.
For convenience the table-linen should be kept in drawers or
lockers built beneath the shelves containing the china. A
butler's pantry is not an essential when such arrangements as
these are made.
The kitchen, pantry, storeroom, and laundry form, as it were,
the "factory" of the house, with the range as the central
"engine." Accordingly they should be planned with respect to
each other to save steps. Fortunately this means also saving
expense in construction. Architects have been most ingenious
as well as practical in perfecting these arrangements, and
the housebuilder, therefore, needs no advice from us.
It cannot be too much emphasized, however, that the cellar
is, from the standpoints of sanitation and comfort, the most
important part of the house. There should be no attempt to
save expense by limiting its proper size, materials for
walls, windows for ventilation, drainage, etc., for money so
saved will inevitably be paid out many times over in coal
bills, doctor's fees, and, perhaps, undertaker's bills. A dry
cellar must be secured at all costs, for the air from it
permeates the whole house. Where this is damp, it leads not
alone to disease among the inmates, but to the disintegration
of the house itself, through what is called "dry rot," but is
paradoxically the result of dampness. Edgar Allan Poe, in his
weird story, "The Fall of the House of Usher," has given a
mystical interpretation of the dissolution of an old
homestead which really has a scientific explanation that
might be found in the cellar.
The proper floor of a cellar is a layer of broken stones in
which tile drains are laid, having outlets into a common
drain, and over which a layer of concrete is placed, The
walls, of plastered stone, brick, or concrete, should rise
above the ground far enough to permit small windows, and
prevent the admission of surface water from rain or snow.
These windows should open from within, upward, and there
should be hooks on the ceiling to keep them open for
ventilation.
Where a house is heated by a furnace, the style of this
should be selected with great care, special regard being had
to the economy of fuel. The systems of steam-heating,
hot-water heating, or hot-air heating have each their merits,
depending on the location of the house and the climate of the
region. The cellar can also be used as a storeroom for those
things not affected by the heat of the furnace, such as
perishable food requiring an ice-box or a cool place,
vegetables, especially those with a penetrating odor; apples,
canned fruit and goods, etc., should be kept here, and
barrels of commodities, such as vinegar, that are bought in
large quantities. Shelves should be built on the walls and
hooks hung on the rafters to increase the facilities for
storage. Articles hung upon the hooks should be tied in paper
bags. It is well to have the cellar ceiled, to keep out the
dust of the house and reduce the risk of fire. Here, of
course, is the natural place for the coal-bin, and, when
there are no out-buildings, the man's workshop. The laundry
may also be placed in the cellar, and, in stormy weather, the
clothes hung there to dry. In the country the cellar is a
good place in which to build an ice-vault.
The kitchen should, of course, be airy and sunny. The sink
should be placed near a south window, if possible, to prevent
freezing of pipes. An iron sink is more cleanly than a wooden
one, and cheaper than porcelain and copper. It should have a
platform with room for two dishpans, and a drying shelf,
raised at one end to permit drainage. Where economy of space
is essential, this shelf may be removable, permitting the use
for other things of the table beneath.
Two other tables are necessary in a proper kitchen equipment,
one covered with zinc for a work-table, set near the range,
and the other a plain table set near the dining-room, for the
prepared dishes. There should be three lights, lamps in
brackets, gas-jets, or electric bulbs, near the sink, range
and food-table respectively. The refrigerator should be put
outside the kitchen, in some such place as a sheltered part
of the back piazza. Commodities such as tea and coffee, not
requiring ice, should be kept in covered jars, preferably
earthen, on a dresser or shelf, where the bread-box may also
stand. There should be a kitchen closet for the flour-barrel
and sugar-box, which should be covered for further protection
from dust, flies, dampness, etc., and for the canned goods in
immediate requisition.
The stove or range should be selected with reference on the
one hand to the amount of cooking to be done for the family,
and on the other to the saving of fuel. Where there is a
water supply, of course there should be a boiler connected
with the range. This should be large enough to assure a
sufficient supply of hot water for the house. There should be
a shelf near the range for such articles as the pepper-box
and salt-box which are in constant use in cooking, and hooks
should be near at hand for hanging up the poker, lid-lifter,
and a coarse towel for use in taking pans from the oven.
Other shelves and hooks, of course, should be put in for the
various utensils necessary in the kitchen.
The floor of the kitchen should be covered with a good
quality of linoleum. A perforated rubber mat may be placed at
the sink, although this is not necessary. In fact, it is a
better plan for the woman in the kitchen, as indeed
elsewhere, to get rubber heels for her shoes. The Arabs have
a proverb that to him who is shod it is as if the whole world
were covered with leather, and rubber heels similarly cause
every floor in the house, whether bare or carpeted, to be
equally easy to the feet of the busy housewife.
The laundry should be supplied with two tubs, an
ironing-table, an ironing-board, and a stove for the boiler
and the irons. The ironing-board should be supported upon two
"horses" of the height of the table. The table should be
supplied with an iron-rest.
In a well-planned house there should be separate bedrooms for
every inmate except the very small children. It is quite an
economy in the care of the house that each child, at as early
an age as possible, should have its own room and be taught to
take care of it. Since the room is designed primarily for
sleeping, care should be taken that the bed be placed in such
a position that the light falls from behind the sleeper's
head. The dresser should be so placed that the light falls on
the face of the occupant of the room when he is looking into
the mirror. Even at the expense of space in the bedroom
proper, there should be a large closet in every
sleeping-room. The deeper the closet the better, for, by
using rods attached to the back of the closet and projecting
through its width, whereon clothes-hangers may be strung, far
more room will be obtained for clothes than where hooks and
nails are employed. By the use of these clothes-hangers, too,
suits and dresses may be kept in much better order. The top
of the closet may be occupied by one broad, high shelf,
whereon hats and bonnets may be kept in their proper
receptacles. Shoes should be kept in a drawer at the bottom
of the closet, rather than thrown on the floor beneath the
dresser. It is a mistake to substitute a curtain for the door
of the closet, since it is of the first importance to keep
the clothing free from dust.
Shelves are better than closets for the keeping of the bed
linen. It is a handy thing to have a separate linen closet in
the house, but this is not essential. The sewing-room of the
mother is a suitable place for keeping the linen. Shelves are
preferable to closets for this purpose. There should also be
a medicine closet or locker in the mother's room which will
be handy in case of sudden illness among the children.
In view of the importance of sanitation, more thought than is
ordinarily allotted to it should be given to the lavatory.
Where there is room to spare, it is best to have the bath
separate from the toilet, in order to prevent inconvenience
in use. There should be a basin and toilet upon the ground
floor, and a bathroom and toilet upon the sleeping floor. The
walls of the lavatory should be tiled, or, if this is too
expensive, they should be covered with water-proof paper. All
toilet arrangements should be systematically kept clean, and
the necessary supplies at all times provided.
Piazzas may be made to add no less to the utility than to the
beauty and comfort of the house. A lower back piazza, covered
with vines, is the ideal place in summer for eating and such
heating labors as ironing. When thoroughly secured from
intrusion, an upper balcony furnishes the best of sleeping
quarters for one wise and brave enough to scout the
superstition of the bad effects of night air. Many persons of
delicate health, even consumptives, have been restored to
vigorous strength by sleeping in such a place, not only in
summer but throughout the winter, save in beating storms.
Closely conjoined with forethought for utility in the
planning of a house is forethought for beauty. It is well to
have an artistic imagination in visualizing, as it were, the
"hominess" of the house as it will appear after its rawness
has been mellowed by time, and its forms have been endeared
by association. This imagination is specially essential in
the planting of trees, arrangement of flower gardens, the
choice of the kind of enclosure, whether hedge or fence, and,
in general, all that is known under the name of landscape
gardening.
The housekeeper's work is greatly dependent upon the kind of
water supply available for the house. In cities and towns the
kind of supply is fixed for her, but in the country she is
afforded her freedom of choice. She has a choice of water
from wells or springs, which is more or less "hard," that is,
impregnated with lime, and water collected from rain or
melting snow. For household purposes rainwater is the more
desirable, and, when properly filtered and kept in clean
cisterns protected from the larvae of mosquitoes and other
disease-bearing insects, it is also the best for drinking
purposes. To one accustomed to drinking hard water from a
well or spring, rain water is a little unpalatable, but after
he is accustomed to its use he will prefer it. It is always
wise to secure an analysis of the drinking water of the
house, since water reputed pure because of its clearness and
coldness is as apt as any other to be contaminated. Where
soft water is not available for household use, hard water may
be softened by the addition to it of pearline or soda, or by
boiling, in the latter case the lime in it being precipitated
to the bottom of the kettle or boiler.
When well water is used for drinking some knowledge of the
geology of the home grounds is essential. Thus, because the
top of a well is on higher ground than the cess-pool is no
reason for assuming that the contents of the latter may not
seep into the water, for the inclination of the strata of the
rocks may be in a contrary direction to that of the surface
of the ground.
When filters and strainers are used they should be carefully
cleaned at regular intervals, since if they are permitted to
accumulate impurities they become a source of contamination
instead of its remedy. Every once in a while the housekeeper
should take off the strainers from the faucets and boil them.
There are many excellent systems for obtaining water power
for the house in the country, each of which has its special
advantages. The pumping of water to a tank at the top of the
house by a windmill is that most commonly used. This is the
cheapest method, but the most unsightly. Small kerosene or
hot-air engines may be employed for the power at very slight
cost, and will prove useful for other purposes, such as
sawing wood or even operating the sewing-machines. Owing to
the many inventions for isolated lighting plants by acetylene
and other kinds of gas, dwellers in the country have
virtually as free a choice of illumination as the people in
towns and cities.
Great caution is necessary in the use of any form of
illuminating gas, since all produce asphyxiation.
Accordingly, all gas fixtures of the house should be
regularly inspected to see that there is no escape of the
subtile, destructive fluid. The odor of escaping gas which is
so unpleasant is really a blessing, in that it informs the
householder of his danger. A cock that turns completely
around and, after extinguishing the light, permits the escape
of the gas, is more dangerous than a poisonous serpent. Yet
there may be nothing radically wrong with this fixture, and
the use of the screwdriver may make it as good as new. Gas
should never be turned low when there is a draught in the
room, nor allowed to burn near hanging draperies. Care should
always be taken in turning out a gas-stove or a drop-light to
do so at the fixture and not at the burner. This is not alone
safer, but it keeps the rubber tube from acquiring a
disagreeable odor from the gas that has been left in it.
Great economy in the consumption of gas may be secured by the
use of Welsbach and other incandescent burners. Where these
are not employed, care should be taken to select the most
economical kind of gas tips, and to see that when these
become impaired by use they are replaced.
In the large cities there is constant complaint of defective
gas-meters, so much so that inspectors have been appointed to
correct this abuse. It has been found, however, that many
complaints have been unfounded because the housewives were
not able properly to read the meter. Directions how to do
this will therefore be found useful. A gas-meter has three
dials marking tip to 100,000 feet, 10,000 feet, and 1,000
feet respectively. The figures on the second dial are
arranged in opposite order from those on the first and third
dials, and this often leads to an error in reckoning.
However, there should be no trouble in setting down the
figures indicated by the pointer on each dial. We first set
down the figure indicated upon the first dial in the units
place of a period of three places, then that indicated upon
the second dial in the tens place, and then that indicated
upon the third dial in the hundreds place. To these we add
two ciphers, to obtain the number of feet of gas that has
been burned since the meter was set at zero on the three
dials. From this number we subtract the total of feet burned
at the time when the preceding gas bill was rendered. This is
generally called on the bill "present state of meter." The
result of the subtraction will be the amount of gas that has
been burned since the last bill was rendered. For example:
95,300, amount indicated on dial.
82,700, amount marked "present state of meter" on preceding gas bill.
———
12,600, amount of gas for which current bill is rendered.
Equal care must be exercised when kerosene is used for
illumination, since, while it is not so dangerous directly to
life, it is the chief source of the destruction of property.
Accordingly the nature of kerosene and the way it illuminates
is a profitable subject of study if we would prevent
destructive fires. Really, we do not burn the oil, but the
gas that arises from the oil when liberated by the burning
wick and becomes incandescent when fed by the oxygen of the
air. While kerosene requires a high temperature for
combustion, it is closely related to other products of coal
oil, such as naphtha and gasoline, which become inflammable
at a low heat and are therefore very dangerous. Since the
cheap grades of kerosene approach these products in quality,
care should be taken to see that it is of high "proof" in
order to prevent explosions. The proof required of kerosene
differs in various States; that in some is as low as 100
degrees Fahrenheit, that is, the temperature at which the oil
will give off vapors that will ignite. This is too low a
proof, for such a degree of temperature is quite common in
the household. It is safe only to use that kerosene which is
at least 140 degrees proof, for then, even though the oil is
spilled, there is little danger that it will ignite except in
the immediate presence of flame. There is no danger at all in
soaking wood with this kind of oil in a stove or grate
wherein the fire has gone out.
To test kerosene, put a thermometer into a cup partially
filled with cold water, and add boiling water until the
mercury stands at 130 degrees Fahrenheit. Then take out the
thermometer and pour two teaspoonfuls of kerosene into the
cup and pass over it the flame of a candle. If the oil
ignites, it is unsafe.
In order to prevent the flame from running down into the lamp
and causing an explosion, the wick should be soft, filling
the burner completely. The highest efficiency in the form of
illumination is obtained by round burners, especially those
in lamps which admit air to the inside of the wick and so
induce the largest possible amount of combustion. Such a lamp
produces quite a high degree of heat, and will answer the
purpose of an oil-stove in a small room.
Contrary to the popular idea, wicks should be carefully
trimmed with scissors rather than with a match or other
instrument. In extinguishing a lamp one should first turn
down the wick and blow across the chimney, never down the
chimney.
Owing to the fact that the wick is constantly bringing up oil
by capillary attraction, whether it is lighted or unlighted,
lamps in which the wicks have not been cared are kept
continually greasy. In fact, a lamp that is greasy or that
gives out a bad odor is one that has not been properly cared.
With due attention, lamps are as clean and handy a means of
illumination as any other form.
Candles, that are now used chiefly for decorative purposes,
may still be practically employed for carrying light about
the house. The danger from a falling candle carried by a
child up to bed is not nearly so great as that which may
result from either spilt oil from a broken lamp or the
cutting glass of its chimney.
To those who live in an old house, all the foregoing advice
should prove a source of helpfulness in making the best of
the old home, rather than of dissatisfaction with its seeming
shortcomings. There are many simple, inexpensive ways of
making it conform to the model house. Expense need only be
incurred in sanitary improvement, such as the better drainage
of the cellar, enabling it to be utilized for purposes which
now crowd the "work-rooms" of the home, and the alterations
of the windows to permit better lighting and ventilation.
Very often a room can be made to exchange purposes by a
simple transference of furniture, thus saving the housekeeper
steps. A woodhouse can be converted into a summer kitchen,
and the old one, during this season, used as a dining-room,
though it may be found even pleasanter to eat out of doors
under an arbor or on a wide piazza. A porch may be
partitioned off into a laundry, and the attic ceiled and
partitioned for use as a bedroom. Very often an old boxed-off
stairway, built in the days when it was thought unseemly to
show a connection with the upper bedrooms, can be relieved of
its door and walls, to the increase of space in the lower
room, and of the beauty of its appearance. Indeed, as a rule,
there are too many doors in an old house. Some of these can
be altered into open arched entrances, making one large
commodious room out of two little inconvenient ones. Unused
out-buildings can be turned into playrooms for the children,
and even sleeping quarters. All these are changes that make
for the beauty no less than the utility of home, as proved by
the fact that many artists, especially those who have studied
abroad where old country houses are more or less of this
unconventional character, go into the country and alter in
this fashion old and even abandoned houses into houses
admired for their charming individuality. Illustrations of
such "hermitages" frequently appear in the magazines, and may
be studied for suggestions. Sometimes the alteration is of
the exterior only. The repainting in a proper color, or the
simple creosote staining of a weather-beaten house, with the
addition of a rustic porch or the breaking of a corner
bedroom into a balcony, will sometimes so transform an old
house that it looks as if it were a new creation.
CHAPTER VI
FURNITURE AND DECORATION
The Qualities to Be Sought in Furniture—Home-made
Furniture—Semi-made Furniture—Good Furniture as
an Investment—Furnishing and Decorating the
Hall—The Staircase—The Parlor—Rugs and
Carpets—Oriental Rugs—Floors—Treatment of
Hardwood—Of Other Wood—How to Stain a
Floor—Filling as a Floor Covering.
Necessity invented stools,
Convenience next suggested elbow-chairs,
And Luxury the accomplished sofa last.
WILLIAM COWPER—The Task.
Utility, comfort and elegance are, as Cowper shows, the three
successive purposes for which furniture was designed. And
to-day the order of development remains also the order of
importance. The first things to be desired in any article of
furniture are durability and simple application to its
purpose. These being found, a person naturally looks to see
if the use of them will contribute to his physical pleasure
as well as his convenience, that the back of a chair is the
right height and curvature to fit his back, and the seat is
not so deep as to strain his legs; that the table or desk is
one he can spread his legs under in natural fashion, and rest
his elbows upon with ease; in short, that the furniture
conforms to his bodily requirements, as the chair and bed of
the "wee teenty bear" suited exactly the little old woman of
Southey's tale. Last of all, the aesthetic pleasure, the
appreciation of beauty by the mind, decides the choice in
cases of equal utility and comfort. The artistic
considerations are so many that furniture has become a branch
of art, like sculpture or painting, with a large literature
and history of its own.
Since most authorities on the subject largely ignore the
questions of utility and comfort, devoting themselves to the
questions of aesthetic style, it will be useful to our
purpose here to confine the discussion to the neglected
qualities. As a rule, a durable, useful, and comfortable
article is a beautiful one. At least it has the beauty of
"grace," by which terms the old writers on aesthetics
characterized perfect adaptation to purpose, and the beauty
of what they called "homeliness," or, as we would now say,
since this term has been perverted, of "hominess," the
suggestion of adding to the pleasure of the household.
The quality of "hominess" is greatly increased in an article
of furniture by a frank look or "home-made" appearance. There
is no more delightful occupation for the leisure hours of a
man or woman, and no more useful training for a boy or girl,
than the making of simple articles of home furniture. Really,
the first article of furniture which should be brought into
the house is a well-equipped tool-chest, and the first room
which should be fitted up is the workshop. A vast amount of
labor will be saved thereby in unpacking, adjusting,
repairing, and polishing the old and the new household
articles, so that life in the new home be begun under the
favorable auspices of the great household deity, the Goddess
of Order. When it is further considered that often small
repairs made by a carpenter cost more than a new article, the
tool-chest will be valued by the family as a most profitable
investment.
If it is not possible to procure the proper materials and
tools for making the entire article, some part of the work,
the shaping, and certainly the staining and polishing, can be
done at home. If the visitor does not recognize the home
quality in such an article, the maker does, and will always
have a pride and affection for it.
Many furniture manufacturers give in their catalogues designs
of semi-made or "knock together" furniture, that is, the
parts of tables, chairs, etc., cut out and planed, which it
is intended that the purchaser put together himself. These,
as a rule, are made of good material befitting the hand
workmanship which will be put upon them, and are offered at a
considerable reduction from the price asked for ready-made
furniture of the same material.
Furniture stains of excellent quality are found in every
hardware store and paint shop, which can easily be applied by
the merest amateur.
It is never wise to buy flimsy furniture, however cheap. As a
rule, there is too much furniture in the American home. It is
better to get along with a few good, durable articles, even
though a little expensive, than with a profusion of inferior
ones. These soon reveal their "cheap and nasty qualities,"
are in constant need of repair, and quickly descend from the
place of honor in the parlor to be endured a while in the
living room, then abused in the kitchen, and, finally, burnt
as fuel. Good wood and leather, however, are long in becoming
shabby, and even then require only a little attention to be
restored to good condition. When it is considered that in
furniture there is virtually no monopoly of design or
invention, and one therefore pays for material and labor
alone, and competition has reduced these to the lowest terms,
the purchaser is certain to get the worth of his money when
he pays a higher price for durable material and honest
workmanship. When it is further recalled that our chief
heirlooms from the former generations are tables and chairs
and bureaus, it will appear that it is our duty to hand down
to our children furniture of similar durability and honest
quality. Therefore, money spent for good furniture may be
considered as a permanent investment whose returns are
comfort and satisfaction in the present, and loving
remembrance in the days to come.
So often is the artistic beauty of a house destroyed by a bad
selection and arrangement of furniture and choice of
inharmonious decorations, that many architects are coming to
advise, and even dictate, the style of everything that goes
into the house. Thus Colonial furniture is prescribed for a
residence in Colonial style, Mission furniture for Mission
architecture, etc. There is a corresponding movement among
makers of artistic furniture to plan houses suited to their
particular styles. Thus "Craftsman" houses and "Craftsman"
furniture are designed by the same business interest.
Since, however, the average American home is something of a
composite in architectural design, the housekeeper may be
permitted to exercise her taste in making selections from the
infinite variety of styles of furniture that are offered her
by the manufacturers of the country. It is advisable,
however, that the furniture in each room be in harmony.
Let us briefly examine the articles of furniture and styles
of decoration appropriate for the several rooms.
The hall, now often the smallest, most ill-considered part of
the house, was once its chief glory. In the old days in
England, and, indeed, in America, the word was used as
synonymous with the mansion, as Bracebridge Hall, Haddon
Hall, etc. It was the largest apartment, the center of family
and social life. Here the inmates and their guests feasted
and danced and sang. Gradually it was divided off into rooms
for specific purposes, until now in general practice it has
narrowed down to a mere vestibule or entrance to the other
rooms, with only those articles of furniture in it which are
useful to the one coming in or going out of the house,
combination stands with mirror, pins for hanging up hats and
overcoats, umbrella holder, a chair or so, or a settee for
the guest awaiting reception, etc. Often the chair or settee
is of the most uncomfortable design, conspiring with the
narrow quarters to make the visitor's impression of the house
and its inmates a very disagreeable one. If space is lacking
to make the hall a comfortable and pleasing room, it should
be abolished, and the visitor, if a social one, taken at once
to the parlor, and if a business one, to the living-room.
Where, however, size permits it, the hall should be made the
most attractive part of the house. Here is the proper place
for a "Grandfather's Clock," a rug or so of artistic design,
and a jardiniere holding growing plants or flowers. The
wallpaper should be simple and dignified in design, but of
cheerful tone. Some shade of red is always appropriate.
Remember in choosing decorations that the colors of the
spectrum—violet, indigo, blue, green, yellow, orange,
red—run the gamut of emotive influence from depression
to exhilaration. Violet and indigo lower the spirits, blue
and green hold them in peaceful equilibrium, yellow begins to
cheer them, and orange and red excite them.
However, the color scheme of a hall is largely dependent upon
the wood-finish, because of the amount of this shown in the
stairs.
Dark red is a very suitable color for the stair-carpet. The
best way to fasten this is by a recent invisible contrivance
which goes underneath the material. Brass rods are
ornamental, rather too much so, and carpet tacks are
provoking, both in putting down and taking up the carpet.
Where the hall and stairway are wide and room-like, pictures
should be hung on the walls, interesting in subject and
cheerful in decorative tone. The presence of the stairway,
especially if this is broken by a landing, permits quite a
variety of arrangement. The line of ascent should be followed
only approximately. Remember that it is a fundamental law of
art always to suggest a set idea, but never to follow it; to
have a rule in mind, and then play about it rather than
strictly pursue it. Art is free and frolicking. It gambols
along the straight path of utility, following the scent of
airy suggestion into outlying fields and by-paths, but always
keeping the general direction of the path.
The parlor, when this is not combined with the hall, should
be furnished and decorated according to the chief use the
family intend to make of it. If they are given to formal
entertainment, the color scheme may be in "high key," that
is, a combination of white with either gold, rose, or green,
any of which forms a bright setting for gay evening costumes.
But this decoration is not advisable in the case of the
average American home, since it is too fine and frivolous for
the reception of neighbors in ordinary dress. A quieter, more
dignified color-scheme should be adopted; such as golden
brown, with subdued decorations for the wall, and
ecru-colored lace curtains for the windows. The floor may be
of hardwood, in which case a few medium-sized Oriental rugs
should be placed on the floor. It is not essential that these
"match" the wallpaper, for they are of the nature of artistic
household treasures, and so rise autocratically above the
necessity of conformity. Where they are chosen with a view to
the color scheme, it is advisable to make them the means of
transition from the hall. If this is decorated in dark red,
the rugs leading from it into the parlor may shade off from
this into more golden tones. The design of the rugs should be
unobtrusive. The homemaker should not feel that Oriental rugs
are too expensive for consideration. Every once in a while
their is a glut of them in the market, owing to an extensive
importation, when they can be purchased at a price which will
always insure the owner getting his money back if at any time
he wishes to dispose of them. But the purchaser should be
certain that the bargains offered are real ones, for
rug-stores, like trunk-stores, always seem to be selling out
"at a sacrifice." All Oriental rugs are well made, and, with
proper usage, will last for generations, even enhancing in
value. Therefore, they are always safe investments. Oriental
rug-dealers repair rugs at a fair price for the time spent in
doing so.
Since the floor space of a room with rugs in it is about
two-thirds bare, the rugs will often not exceed the cost of a
good carpet.
Hard woods take best a finish in brown or green, that gives
an impress of natural texture impossible to secure by paint.
Hardwood floors should be polished at least once a week with
floor-wax, a simple compound of beeswax and turpentine, which
can be made at home, or bought at the stores. This is useful
for polishing any floor or woodwork. When the floor is not of
hardwood, it may be stained. All varieties of stains are
sold, the most durable, though the most expensive being the
old-fashioned oil oak-stain. For the parlor and other floors,
and corridors, stairways, etc., that do not get much wear, as
well as for hardwood work in general, varnishing saves time
and labor in cleaning.
For proper staining, the wood should be thoroughly scrubbed
with soap and water; then, when dry, brushed over with hot
size. Use concentrated size, a dry powder, rather than that
in jelly form, as it is more convenient. It is dissolved and
should be applied with a broad paint-brush. The application
should be very rapid to prevent congealing and setting in
lumps on the boards; accordingly the bowl containing the size
should be set in boiling water until it is thoroughly liquid,
and kept in this condition. The number of coats must depend
upon the absorbent nature of the boards. One coat must be
allowed to dry thoroughly before another is applied. Over
night is a sufficient time for this. Varnishing also should
be done rapidly to prevent dust settling on it. It is best
done in a warm room, without draughts. Do not use stains
ready-mixed with varnish, as these do not last as long, nor
look so well as pure stains varnished after application. When
the boards are in bad condition they should be first
sandpapered. Cracks should be filled with wedges of wood
hammered in and planed smooth. They can also be filled with
thin paper torn up, mixed with hot starch and beaten to a
pulp. This can be pressed into the cracks with a glazier's
knife. The use of putty or plaster of Paris for this purpose
is not so satisfactory as these methods.
For sleeping-rooms and living-rooms, which for sanitary
reasons it is advisable to scrub, the stain should be left
unvarnished.
CHAPTER VII
FURNITURE AND DECORATION
The Carpet Square—Furniture for the Parlor—Parlor
Decoration—The Piano—The
Library—Arrangement of Books—The "Den"—The
Living-room—The Dining-room—Bedrooms—How to
Make a Bed—The Guest Chamber—Window Shades and
Blinds.
Housekeepers often prefer carpets to bare floors, and rugs
for the reason that they "show the dirt" less. It is for this
very reason that bare floors are best. Dirt is something to
remove rather than conceal, and bare floors and rugs are more
easily cleaned than carpets.
Covering the entire floor with plain filling, as a base for
rugs, is an alternative for either hardwood or stained
floors. It should be in the deeper tone of the color employed
as a main part of the room's decoration.
When carpets are used, those in the hall, parlor, and
dining-room should not be fitted into the corners, but a
space should intervene between their edges and the walls.
This may be filled with wood-carpetry, which, like all
devices which suggest continuation of fine material through
unseen parts, gives an air of art and elegance at
comparatively little expense. Otherwise the floor, if
hardwood, should be finished; if of other wood, stained and
varnished. The carpet square is kept in position with
brass-headed pins sold for the purpose.
Articles of furniture which are suitable for a parlor used
chiefly as a reception room are light side chairs, and a
settee, cane-seated with dark frames, or willow chairs, and
settee, stained a dark hue, and brightened up with pretty
cushions. These are not dear, so a little extra expense may
be incurred in buying the parlor-table, which should be
graceful in design and of rich dark wood, preferably
mahogany, or in mahogany finish. A small table, of similar
design and finish, should serve for afternoon tea, and a
pretty desk stand near a window, with writing materials for
the use of guests. There should be a clock upon the
mantelpiece, and a few other articles of vertu, such as a
vase or so, a bronze statuette, etc., all harmonized by the
common possession of artistic elegance.
The pictures in the parlor should possess evident artistic
merit. There should be no suggestion of amateurishness.
Family attempts at drawing or painting, crayon portraits,
etc., all photographs, with the exception of those intended
as artistic studies, should be excluded from the walls. If
good originals by capable artists are not obtainable, fine
engravings, etchings, and even colored copies of noted
pictures may take their place.
A few books, well bound and with contents worthy of the
binding, should lie on the parlor table, with a late magazine
or so, for the entertainment of the waiting guest. There
should be fresh flowers arranged in pretty bowls to add their
impress of cheerfulness and beauty to the room.
In most American homes the parlor is also the music room.
Since a piano should be chosen for quality rather than
appearance, an instrument of any finish is allowable in a
room, whatever its decorative scheme. Except in a family
containing an expert performer, a piano should be chosen for
softness and richness of tone, instead of brilliancy. For
most households the old cottage organ is a more practicable
instrument than the "concert grand" often found in a small
parlor, where its piercing notes, especially in combination
with operatic singing, are so confined that tones and
overtones, which should assist each other, mingle in jarring
confusion. Indeed, when the parlor is large and high, a
genuine pipe-organ built in a recess and harmonizing in
finish with the woodwork of the room is not only the finest
decoration possible, but the most appropriate musical
instrument. Those families who possess an old-fashioned
piano, such as thin and tinkly "square," are advised to have
it overhauled and refinished by a competent piano-repairer,
and preserved, if only for practice by the children. In case
such an instrument has "overstrung" wires, it can be restored
to a tone that is better than that of the usual upright
piano.
The parlor that is put to family use is usually the best room
to fit up for a library. In this case the form-and-color
scheme of furnishing and decoration should differ entirely
from that when the room is used only for the reception of
guests. The furniture should be heavier and larger,
indicating utility, and its finish, as also that of the
walls, floor and woodwork, in deep shades of the more restful
colors of the spectrum. Sage-green is a good color for the
parlor-library. The furniture may be of this or even darker
hue. There is no better style of furniture for the library
than the Mission, made comfortable by leather cushions. If
leather is thought too expensive, there are fair substitutes
for it in such materials as pantasote. But leather should be
procured if possible. It looks better and wears longer, and
even when shabby keeps its respectability. With the Mission
furniture may be mingled an old-fashioned upholstered chair
or so, such as a large "Sleepy Hollow." A Morris chair is
almost as comfortable as this, and perhaps upholds the
dignity of the room a little better, though it does not give
the same suggestion of "hominess." An old-fashioned sofa,
wide-seated, and designed to be lain upon, should be placed
in the room with its head toward the light, so that the
occupant may read while reclining upon it. In almost every
old house there is a horse-hair sofa, either put away in the
attic or even in use, which can be reupholstered to fit the
color-scheme of the room.
Books naturally form the chief ornament of the library. It is
a mistake to give them an elaborate casing. The simplest form
is the best; the shelves should run up evenly from the floor
to a more or less ornamental and somewhat projecting top,
terminating several feet from the ceiling. On this top a bust
or so of an author may be appropriately placed, or copies of
an ancient statue, and on the wall above, between the cases
of shelves, may hang a few pictures, not necessarily bookish
in suggestion, but reposeful in subject and tone, such as
landscapes and marines.
A writing desk of comfortable size, with its chair, is
essential in every library. It should be as far away as
possible from the type of the modern business desk, and
therefore an old-fashioned article with a sloping top, which,
when let down, serves for the writing board, is an ideal
form. Manufacturers continue to make these desks for home
purposes.
The library table should be large and simple. One that is
oval in shape is the best for the family to gather about, and
therefore gives the most homelike appearance. The
illumination of the library should center either upon this
table, if a lamp is used, or above it, if gas or electric
light. The desk should have a side-light of its own.
Modern library conveniences are presented in so handy and
presentable shapes that the room may be perfectly equipped as
a literary workshop without crowding it, or detracting from
its appearance. A dictionary holder (wooden, not wire), a
revolving bookcase for other works of reference, and a card
index of the library may complete the equipment. It will be
well to utilize one or more of the drawers of the desk as a
file for clippings. These should be kept in stout manila
envelopes, slightly less in size than the width and height of
the drawer, and with the names of subjects contained, and
arranged in alphabetical order.
The carpet should be plain in design, and underlaid with
padding. The curtains should be of heavier and darker stuff
than those in the parlor, and easily adjusted to admit the
light.
The library and living room are generally next each other,
and so each may and should have a fireplace in the common
chimney. That of the library should be of severer design;
that of the living-room more homelike. Dutch tiles, with
pictures that interest children, are specially appropriate
for the latter.
Where the father of the family demands a "den" for reading
and smoking, this may be a small room on the same general
order as the library, but with an emphasis on comfort. Thus,
the sofa should be replaced by a wide divan, which may also
serve on occasion as a sleeping-place. The Turkish style of
furnishing is the customary one; the Japanese style being a
fad that came in with the aesthetic craze, was carried to an
uncomfortable excess, and has gone out of fashion. The most
appropriate style for an American house is American Indian.
The brilliant and strikingly designed Navajo blankets may be
used for both rugs and couch covers, or hung up as
wall-ornaments. Moqui basketware serves equally well for
useful purposes, such as scrap-baskets, and for
ornamentation. The pottery of the Pueblo Indians, being naive
and primitive in design, is much more intimate and therefore
appropriate than the Japanese bric-a-brac which it replaces.
The living-room is the heart of the house, and everything in
it should be of a nature to collect loving associations.
Almost any style of furniture is admissible into it, if only
it is comfortable. There should be rocking-chairs, for the
woman and the neighbors who drop in to see her, other chairs
stout enough for a man to tip back upon the hind legs, and
little chairs, or a little settee by the fireplace, for the
children. The mother's desk should stand here, plainer than
the one in the library, but of design similar to it; there
should be a sofa as comfortable as the library one, to which
the mother should have the first right. The paper should be
cheerful in its tone and with a definite design. This will
become endeared by association with home to the children, and
the mother should be slow to replace it. The window draperies
may be home-made, such as of rough-finished silk or
embroidered canvas, and the floor covered with a thick
rag-carpet, preferably of a nondescript or "hit-and-miss"
design. If the housekeeper thinks that this is "hominess"
carried to excess, she may cover the floor with an ingrain
carpet, or better, plain filling of a medium shade, on which
a few rag rugs are laid, light in color. Very artistic
carpets and rugs are made out of old carpets and sold at
reasonable figures, and there still remain in some small
towns throughout the country weavers who weave into carpets
the carpet-rags sewn together by housewives for the price of
their labor alone.
There is a reason additional to its economy why this practice
should not die out. The tearing up into strips of old
garments, and the tacking of their ends together with needle
and thread is work eminently suited for |